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Appeal to Flattery Fallacy
What Is the Appeal to Flattery Fallacy?
In Critical Thinking, the Appeal to Flattery Fallacy is unquestioningly adopting the same position as a flatterer.
Easy Definition of the Appeal to Flattery Fallacy
Don't be tricked into adopting someone's point of view after they've been nice to you. You might have committed the Appeal to Flattery Fallacy if you do.
Academic Definition of the Appeal to Flattery Fallacy
The Appeal to Flattery Fallacy is an error in reasoning that occurs when someone adopts a position due to flattery or a compliment presented within the argument.
Examples of the Appeal to Flattery Fallacy
Think what I think and I'll think you're great
Here are some examples of the Appeal to Flattery Fallacy:
- Someone with your intellect must know that the pay freeze was necessary.
- As an expert, you must know that the pay freeze was necessary.
- In your position, it should be obvious that the pay freeze was necessary.
Sometimes, the "flattery" is more subtle, and it's presented in a way that pressures you into not wanting to disappoint the speaker:
- It was great to hear you accepted the pay freeze.
- I am so pleased you have been able to accept the pay freeze.
- Thank you for taking the time to consider and accept the pay freeze.
- Only an idiot would think the pay freeze wasn't required.
- You would have to live in a bubble to think the pay freeze wasn't required.
- I love your suit and those shoes. You are a real role model for me. Can we talk about this pay freeze?
A Practical Example of Appeal to Flattery Fallacy
Defend against flattery and attack with flattery
Don't let people use this technique on you. It is always worth bearing these two quotes in mind:"Flattery looks like friendship — just like a wolf looks like a dog."
(Anon)
(Anon)
"Flattery is like cologne water, to be smelt of, not swallowed."
(American humorist Josh Billings, 1818–1885)
(American humorist Josh Billings, 1818–1885)

Also, be aware that an appeal to flattery is often used in a work context to offload work. For example:
"You're great at PowerPoint presentations. Will you put one together for me please?"
If this is aimed at you, you'll know whether it's right for you to do the presentation or not. Just recognize the flattery so you don't feel you're being made a fool of.
"Of course. Flattery will get you everywhere, boss."
or
"No chance. Flattery will get you nowhere, mate."
Summary of Appeal to Flattery Fallacy
If you think someone has adopted a position due to a bout of flattery, tell them they have been taken in and have committed the Appeal to Flattery Fallacy.- Do you disagree with something on this page?
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